Can You Learn How To Flirt With A Stranger?

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Sure you can!

Look at these basic rules of flirting tips (Actually how to flirt is almost an art form)-- and then read about the follow-up.

? Be Open-- This is as simple as being friendly and down to earth. The two traits that most people find appealing and inviting are: o Confidence, and o A Sense of Humor

? Careful of your drinks-- Here we just use a bit of common sense. If you know that you become a bit ... (fill in the blank) when you have three or more drinks-- pass on third drink. Logical, yes?

? Understand Body Language - You don't really need to read up on reading body language. If their stance toward you seems to be open, and there is eye contact, it doesn't take an expert to know that this person may indeed be interested in talking to you. Don't take your instincts lightly. They are inbred, and generally very reliable.

? Initiate some good conversation starters-- This is as easy as commenting on the food, weather, music, etc. Whatever you do, don't use some funny pick up lines. Really, they don't work-- and make you look somewhat like a jerk. No, I take that back-- not 'somewhat like a jerk ', but definitely like a jerk.

? Be cool-- No pressure on yourself-- or your objective. Remember, the old Real Estate line, "The best deal of the century" will be found again tomorrow. That special person will likely pop up again very soon, so don't put pressure on this one, or yourself.

? Reciprocate with information-- This is a rule that some forget-- and pay for it, almost immediately. Don't make the mistake of giving all kinds of information about yourself-- like dumping a wheelbarrow full of fertilizer on a garden patch. Give information-- but only as it is given to you. So, the word is reciprocate with information-- don't let it be one sided.

? Manners-- If you think that manners are out of place on the 'Flirting 'scene-- Think again. They are important as always. Perhaps they are even more important-- because they are increasingly rare.

Now, after looking at the guideposts above-- what now?

You know that an opening gambit-- is easy. To make an initial comment about some situational topic is not only natural-- but completely stress free. For example-- who couldn't say something like, "Man, this weather is really something!"

But, now what do you say? To be cast as a one-trick pony is deadly in the art of flirting. In the 'how to flirt 'arena-- you must be able to excel if you are going to succeed in meeting and following through with that special person.

To do so, you must master some conversation starters, and to be able to follow through with witty conversation, humor, and charm.

Wow-- how do you accomplish that? There are techniques and styles that can be learned-- as any skill can be learned. Is it worth your time to learn these techniques; Not if you want to strike out most of the time-- but, if you want to walk away with the prize-- Hell yes it is worth the effort to learn these things. It will pay you huge dividends in every walk in life-- including flirting!

Ron is a master communicator and has extensive experience in being in social situations where many are strangers to one another. It is this type of environment that offers the most opportunities at many levels. His sites deal with conversation in and around a Dinner Party environment. You will find his site both enlightening and entertaining!

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